Yesterday Aunty wrote about Male/male spanking, today she turns to a subject equally dear to her heart - Woman spanking men. When Aunty was much younger, she took a neighbor boy over her knees and spanked his bottom. It was part of a game, but she remembers feeling very moved by the experience. Even now, Aunty recalls that episode with satisfaction - the way the boy wriggled and gasped as little Aunty smacked and smacked without mercy.
But it was not until she was quite grown-up that Aunty again began to explore her topishness. Which is not to say that her daydreams about spanked male bottoms disappeared during her adolescence - rather the interest became submerged, taken over by more vanilla (i.e. 'socially acceptable') interactions with guys
Happily, Aunty rediscovered her interest in chastising male bottoms and (if she may say) has become quite adept at the art of making handsome men pay for their inequities.
Even with a few years of spanking experience under her (ahem) belt, Aunty still marvels at the wonders and mysteries of her little fetish.
She has become convinced that the men she punishes are not necessarily pain junkies. They seem to gain a sense of inner peace when they surrender their adulthood, with its responsibility and cares. As each ritual in the drama of spanking unfolds -- receiving a scolding, baring the bottom, bending over, taking the swats, etc. -- men become a little more tranquil.
Interestingly, Aunty notices a different dynamic when she spanks women. Girls appear to genuinely relish the pain -- one young woman goes into a real trance; it's like she's hypnotized when Aunty spanks her, and this seems to be what draws her back for more. Females can also be more resistant, sassy and rude when sentenced to corporal punishment. In contrast, men are usually impeccably submissive and almost irritatingly polite.
What do Aunty's readers think? Why do men who like to be spanked like to be spanked? Are there really gender differences within the spankophile community? Why are spanked men quiet and compliant, while women are often loud and resistant? (Even when they've explicitly requested a spanking, and continue to come back for more.)
Aunty would love to know your thoughts :)