Women spanking men
Yesterday Aunty wrote about Male/male spanking, today she turns to a subject equally dear to her heart - Woman spanking men. When Aunty was much younger, she took a neighbor boy over her knees and spanked his bottom. It was part of a game, but she remembers feeling very moved by the experience. Even now, Aunty recalls that episode with satisfaction - the way the boy wriggled and gasped as little Aunty smacked and smacked without mercy.
But it was not until she was quite grown-up that Aunty again began to explore her topishness. Which is not to say that her daydreams about spanked male bottoms disappeared during her adolescence - rather the interest became submerged, taken over by more vanilla (i.e. 'socially acceptable') interactions with guys
Happily, Aunty rediscovered her interest in chastising male bottoms and (if she may say) has become quite adept at the art of making handsome men pay for their inequities.
Even with a few years of spanking experience under her (ahem) belt, Aunty still marvels at the wonders and mysteries of her little fetish.
She has become convinced that the men she punishes are not necessarily pain junkies. They seem to gain a sense of inner peace when they surrender their adulthood, with its responsibility and cares. As each ritual in the drama of spanking unfolds -- receiving a scolding, baring the bottom, bending over, taking the swats, etc. -- men become a little more tranquil.
Interestingly, Aunty notices a different dynamic when she spanks women. Girls appear to genuinely relish the pain -- one young woman goes into a real trance; it's like she's hypnotized when Aunty spanks her, and this seems to be what draws her back for more. Females can also be more resistant, sassy and rude when sentenced to corporal punishment. In contrast, men are usually impeccably submissive and almost irritatingly polite.
What do Aunty's readers think? Why do men who like to be spanked like to be spanked? Are there really gender differences within the spankophile community? Why are spanked men quiet and compliant, while women are often loud and resistant? (Even when they've explicitly requested a spanking, and continue to come back for more.)
Aunty would love to know your thoughts :)
posted by Aunty Agony at 4/15/2006 03:48:00 PM
14 Comments:
in my opinion men who like to be spanked are polite and gentle because they adore their female disciplinarian and by showing politness,they show their appreciation to her.
god bless all women,specially those who know how to spank their naughty men.
the men are so calm,because women dont spank hard enough-simple as can be.
This was sheer delight, AA. Nothing like a "capable woman" communicating with an errant male both via a classic scolding sequence AND, through the skin of his bare seat whilst his pelvic bones are deeply denting her erotically revealed left thigh. Ahhhhhh. "Please, Ma'am, not on my bare..."
Why is this desired by a certain unique niche of men? It's how we're wired, AA. It's a refuge, as you say.
Fantasy or not, if it's properly and skillfully carried out in all of it's delicious elements, it's the best way for her to show she cares.
Time for you to craft a piece for Esquire on this dynamic. That'll give 'em something to talk about!
I can see the editor knowingly stroking his chin as he contemplates how to work this into the mag. :-)
The thought of lying across a women's lap brings up nuturing and gentle thoughts even if the spanking is going to hurt. There is too much brutality on the web. Some of us yearn to trust and to surrender, without bruises or blood. A women spanking a man, utililizing a gentle, even voice in the midst of the spanking, is a manefestation of trust and love. Seduction and patient, exquisite ritual is an incredible turnon. How I wish that I could have such an experience.
When I was growing up Mom would SPANK us when we deserved it. Dad would BEAT us although it was called a spanking. Mom used a large wooden kitchen spoon. It burn like the dickens and left little red bulleyes on our bare bottoms. Dad used a strap that almost tore the skin and left welts that lasted for a week. As I got into the spanking scene as a teenager I felt that sexual connection when getting spanked by a women, but I never got a sexual connection thinking about getting spanked by a male. I am a top today, but I will switch for the right lady.
Tony
I agree that trust is a big part of it. I think everyone loves having a friend that you can share your secrets with and having someone who spanks you is like that....plus the fact that the entire package of sights, sounds and feelings that go along with it are such a heady mixture!
I'm not so sure there is a gender difference though. I've seen some F/m play at parties where the guy was a REAL brat! Personally I think he overplayed his part. I tend to be pretty submissive myself, but if the spanks aren't making their point I have been know to, shall we say, not use the best judgment in my comments. This is always followed by immediate regret when those swats start falling harder and faster!
I've also known a few quiet and submissive women. One in particular could never bring herself to get into trouble even when she really desired a spanking. I think her worst crime was rolling her eyes at me! The friend I meet with most often now doesn't have that problem. During a recent session she even gave me the finger! Rest assured I explained to her that was not at all appropriate behavior for a young lady. ;)
PS: Great clip!!!!
It's always a little risky to generalize about gender, but if you notice men seeming more submissive and women seeming less so in a spanking context, I'm inclined to think it has to do with a feeling of being released from social expectations. It's a chance to act out or give vent to a side of the self that might be repressed under other circumstances. So maybe men get more yin, and women get more yang...
......or, maybe it's that men are willing to admit when they are wrong, and women aren't? ha, ha, ha!!!........
Aunty,
No deep discourse is need from that explains my interest in women spanking men: It's a sexual fantasy for me. Women spanking women also is great, because I love female bottoms, and I get to et observe the female top. Thanks for the recent F/m posts.
Spanking is domestic and cozy--why fight it? The pleasure is in submission to a benign feminine authority.
Nice Post. I would suggest a "win a spanking from auntie" contest....
IT SUBMITTING TO SOMETHING YOU ADORE.THE MORE PLEASURE THE FEMALE PANKER GET THE MORE THE MALE SUBMITTING WILL ENJOY.KA
KATCHKE12@YAHOO.COM
As some-one who learned all about spanking from over both my Mothers and on her sisters hands until my early teens.
Now 30 years on I look back on those events with many feelings, my mothers spankings were just plain sore but my Aunty's spankings I seemed to enjoy without realising it, if you can understand me
I'm in my 50's and as a child was spanked by my mother. However as I grew I still often felt the urge and mastrabated thinking of it.
After being married for 20 years my wife asked my what would I relly like as a birthday present, she stressed really really want. So much to her to her surprise I said "A really good spanking just like Mammy used" [God but it sounds corney just to write it]
After her initial shock she inquired of me how my mother used spank me as she had never been even slaped by her parents.
So true to her word that's exactly what she did a few weeks later, she even dressed in 50's cloths corset nylons and all. Treated me just as I used to be given a lecture having to lower my trousers and lie over her knees for a sound spanking.
But the real punishment came when she was finished and sent me to the corner for 15 minutes and I wasn't allowed to touch myself even though my member was hugh and throbbing, then we made the most delicious love.
We have done this now every birthday for over 12 years and the really good end is tonights the night.
Pat Dublin
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